Improve oauth2 client "preferred username field" logic and the error handling (#30622)

Follow #30454
And fix #24957

When using "preferred_username", if no such field,
`extractUserNameFromOAuth2` (old `getUserName`) shouldn't return an
error. All other USERNAME options do not return such error.

And fine tune some logic and error messages, make code more stable and
more friendly to end users.

modules/session/mock.go

@@ -0,0 +1,26 @@
+// Copyright 2024 The Gitea Authors. All rights reserved.
+// SPDX-License-Identifier: MIT
+
+package session
+
+import (
+	"net/http"
+
+	"gitea.com/go-chi/session"
+)
+
+type MockStore struct {
+	*session.MemStore
+}
+
+func (m *MockStore) Destroy(writer http.ResponseWriter, request *http.Request) error {
+	return nil
+}
+
+type mockStoreContextKeyStruct struct{}
+
+var MockStoreContextKey = mockStoreContextKeyStruct{}
+
+func NewMockStore(sid string) *MockStore {
+	return &MockStore{session.NewMemStore(sid)}
+}